Hi everyone! Hope you all remembered "Remembrance Day" (as we here in Canada call it). I know it's a
service of remembering those who gave the ultimate gift to us by fighting against evil in the past wars. However, I couldn't help but
smile when recalling that so many men in my family were part of those who fought. My grandfathers (both of them) fought in World War 1, with my paternal grandfather passing away at the young age of about 50 from complications of the gas he inhaled at one of the battles. I remember that night so clearly as I was about 7 years old and in bed when
suddenly the house came alive with
shouts and
sirens as the paramedics tried to
save his life after
suffering a massive heart attack. But I remembered my Grandpa with a
smile on November 11th. I also remember my other Grandpa and the photo I have of him in uniform. My Dad and his
sister, my Auntie Jo, were both in World War 2, my Dad as a flight trainer and pilot who monitored the east coast of Canada for German warships, U-boats and
submarines. He didn't go overseas and never got injured but he also never discussed his experiences in the war until the year before he died. However, he focused on the happy times of flying through the clouds and goofing around during training periods. He lost a lot of his friends in those years. Here's my Dad at about 22 years old, proudly posing in his RCAF uniform.
I am also happy to being
smiling broadly these days after having
some dental work done. I had to get a bridge done but after 2 attempts, my dentist decided that for
some reason, my mouth was not accepting the new types of glues.
So,
she had to do a
sort of "old-fashioned" way of doing it. I'm very happy now as I have a great
smile with
straight teeth now!
Finally, I am
smiling because I made a BIG decision and I'm proud of myself.
Some of you know the background of my disastrous marriage almost 4 years ago and why I've been
separated for almost 3 years. Well, I went to my lawyer and have now filed for divorce
and costs if he contests my application. Hopefully, he will have learned that I'm not
someone to trifle with and will
simply sign the form - or else just ignore it. Because we've been
separated for almost 3 years, the application will
simply go through the courts and "he" will be informed that he's now divorced. But if he hasn't learned anything from me, he will try to get access to Tegan, my dog, and if he does, he will end up paying for my legal fees as well as his own. But then I know him - he's too cheap and will probably give up.
So I will be divorced early in the new year - hopefully, January or February. Another fresh
start for me!
Next year, 2018, I am planning a 6-week trip to England, Wales, and Ireland! I'm
smiling all the time with anticipation because I am going to try to rent a cottage in North Yorkshire (near my friend Jill) and hire a car to learn to drive myself around. The car must be an automatic, though, because my brain won't work trying to
shift gears AND
stay on the proper side of the road.
So all in all, I'm feeling pretty good these days! I just knocked on my wooden desk - just to be on the
safe side. LOL
Thanks, Melody, for keeping ABCW alive...not too many contributors - yet - but keep at it. I always post mine on Facebook, too, so if anyone is interested in joining in, they can always contact me. Have a great weekend everyone!